Seven ways to stand out in a crowd.
Here are seven simple steps to make you stand out in a crowd:
Have good posture
Experts say that first impressions are based on 60 per cent non-verbal communication and 40 per cent verbal, which means that youâre being judged mostly before you even open your mouth â no pressure. To make your 60 per cent count, you need to have good posture. When was the last time you noticed the person who shuffled into the room looking shy and coy? Did it make you want to talk to them? If you were an employer, would you give them a job? No? Shocker. Shuffling in with slumped shoulders and your head hanging down will make you look like you donât want to speak to anyone and doesnât make people feel like they can approach you. Instead, walk tall with your shoulders back and your head held high.
Walk with purpose
Along with posture comes walking with a purpose; thereâs no point holding your head high if youâre going to dawdle over to the bar looking worried and lost. Walk as though youâre going somewhere specific. Even if you donât have a clue where youâre walking to, just pretend you do. Maybe aim more towards the bar than the toilets though â youâre trying to look confident, not like youâre on a desperate mission to get to the bathroom because you have an upset stomach.Â Walk in like you mean business, and people will notice you.
Look the part
Trendsetters rarely go undetected so wear something that stands out. This isnât to say that you should revamp your style completely; go for something you feel confident in but add a flash of colour or a quirky accessory to make you stand out. Look through magazines for inspiration; if you flick through the pages of a fashion magazine and see someone that stands out for their style (in a good way, of course) try to incorporate an element of their style into your own.
Be approachable and approach people
Thereâs no point looking the part with posture, confidence and style if youâre going to team these positive attributes with a bad attitude and a glum face. No one likes the cocky guy who walks in like he owns the place. Instead, approach people and make sure you look approachable, make eye contact and smile. Ask people questions about themselves to show that youâre interested even if you couldnât care less about where they work or what theyâre doing at the weekend â these people will want to talk to you again in the future.
Have a passion
When speaking to people â whether that is in a bar or in a job interview â evoke peopleâs interest in you by being passionate about your chosen subject. Talking about how nice the weather is can be a good conversation starter when youâre trying to break the ice, but it gets pretty bland after about 30 seconds. Instead, ask people what theyâre interested in and show your passion for your hobbies too. This doesnât mean pretending that you love rugby when youâre into ballet, but if you can show a particular passion for ballet, then go for it. Showing that you have a passion for something makes people interested in you because youâre inspiring â you have things to talk about and knowledge to share with others.
Donât be swayed by other people
People who really stand out are those who donât simply smile and nod along when something is said that they donât agree with. You shouldnât change your opinion purposely to stand out, but if your thoughts genuinely diverge from everyone elseâs, say it. Donât force your opinions on other people because this will make you unpopular but donât be afraid to express your views either. If you have a good reason for thinking differently, youâll stand out for your honesty and innovative thinking. Rather than saying, for example, âno thatâs not how it should beâ say â thatâs an interesting way to look at it. Iâve never thought of it like that beforeâ and then say your opinion. Having your own thoughts and being honest will make you stand out from the people who simply smile and nod along.
Believe in yourself
Above all, believe in yourself. To stand out from a crowd, you must believe that you are someone worth being around. Once you have conquered the fear of being the centre of attention, youâve got the key to standing out in a crowd. There is only one of you in the whole wide world, so look good, stand tall, be confident and friendly and youâre sure to stand out from the rest . As the saying goes âyou never get a second chance to make a first impressionâ so make that first impression a good one â go you!