
Self-presentation is the act of managing how other people perceive and evaluate you. It involves using various cues, such as your appearance, mannerisms, and speech patterns, to create a certain impression in the minds of others.
When it comes to dressing for success, self-presentation is absolutely critical. How you present yourself to the world sends a powerful message about who you are and what you value.
From your choice of clothing to your hairstyle and makeup, everything you do to present yourself can impact how others view you:
- Clothing style: If you tend to wear trendy and fashionable clothing items, this may communicate that you are creative and stylish. On the other hand, if you prefer more classic and understated styles, this may suggest you are more reserved and conservative.
- Colour choices: Wearing bright and bold colours may convey an outgoing and fun-loving personality, while wearing darker or muted shades may suggest that you are more serious and professional.
- Grooming habits: People often make snap judgments based on the way you look and smell, so it’s important to pay attention to things like your hair, skin, and body odour.
- Body language: How you hold yourself, the way you walk and stand, and your facial expressions convey a great deal about your personality and character.
To dress for success in any situation, here are some tips to keep in mind.
Firstly, it is important to pay attention to the context and expectations of the situation. For example, if you are going for a job interview or meeting a potential client, it is important to dress in a professional and polished manner.
At the same time, you want to make sure you feel comfortable and confident in what you are wearing. This means choosing clothing that fits well, makes you feel good, and reflects your individual style.
Another important factor to consider is your body type. Different clothing styles and cuts will look better on different bodies, so it is important to be mindful of this when choosing what to wear.

If you are petite, you may want to stick with more streamlined and tailored clothing items, while curvier body types can get away with wearing looser, more flowy styles.
Always pay attention to the colours and patterns you choose. Bright, bold colours can be eye-catching and help you stand out in a positive way, while neutral colours are more understated and professional.
Think, too, about the cuts and fits of your clothing. Loose or baggy clothes can make you look sloppy and unprofessional, while form-fitting clothes show off your best features and help you feel more confident.
That said, it’s important to find the right balance between being too revealing and too conservative.
Finally, consider the details of your outfit. Accessories like jewellery, belts, and scarves can add a finishing touch, while well-chosen shoes and bags can help you complete your overall look.
First impressions matter
Whether you are going for a job interview, networking with potential clients, or just meeting someone new at a social event, it is vital to make a good and lasting impression on others.
Some key steps include dressing appropriately for the situation, making eye contact and smiling when you meet someone new, and being polite and respectful at all times.
At the same time, remember to be yourself and to own your style; by being confident, authentic, and true to yourself, you can also leave a positive impact.
Dennis Relojo-Howell is the managing director of Psychreg and host of ‘The DRH Show’. Connect with him on Twitter @dennisr_howell.