Malaysian memory makers hooked on happy days

Malaysian memory makers hooked on happy days

Nostalgia Facebook page makes memorable bygone years more appealing during these unsettling times.

Harris Siva Abdullah, his wife Shahin and their four children have over the past eight years focused on ensuring Malaysians don’t lose track of the past. (Harris pic)
PETALING JAYA:
Feeling nostalgic? Enter Harris Siva Abdullah’s “time machine” for the lure of happy days from years gone by.

Harris’ nostalgia Facebook page, “Down Memory Lane” (DML), may not be the only throwback social media group in the country but it is seen as special in the way it promotes unity and friendship.

It shows, practically on a daily basis, how much Malaysians have in common by bringing people together with an avalanche of historical, candid and funny recalls peppered with delicious anecdotes.

Thousands of lively stories and photographs from the early days of the country have emerged since building contractor Harris built a community tied by harmony and caring in 2013.

“The stories of our communities through good times and bad are endless,” said Harris, 64. “Each narrative has the common touch, a precious gift for togetherness.”

He said the stories reveal the many ways people of different races, religions and cultures lived, worked and played as one, how they celebrated events together, entertained themselves and followed the latest fads.

“In today’s frantic pace of life, it is easy to forget our past as well as the toils of the generations before us who built the country we live in.

“The unsettling times now mean the appeal of the bygone years when things were different, and presumably well, in the country is even more seductive.

“Any talk on race, religion and politics is disallowed,” said Harris, whose wife Shahin and their four children also act as page administrators to delete unwarranted comments or posts.

Harris launched DML after an old photograph of a man selling ais kacang (sweet dessert) he had posted on his personal Facebook page in 2013 struck sweetly with people longing to remember happier times.

Soon, DML set people of all races and ages on journeys back to their youthhood and within weeks, more than 10,000 joined the group.

Today, DML’s almost 43,000 participants nationwide and overseas have created something like a long-lost national photo album, providing a window into a Malaysia without smartphones and SUVs.

Harris said DML has also helped rekindle friendships with old friends, schoolmates and relatives whom they have not seen for up to 50 years.

Regular contributor Sivaraman Sabapathy said: “DML acts as a reset button to jumpstart faltering identities and to relish in the faces, places and moments in history that are frozen in time.

“When I check-in the DML group, I feel a glow of happiness, nostalgia and cheer within me as hundreds of wonderful memories, stories, experiences and lessons are shared.

“And judging from the posts and comments, one thing is crystal clear, that all of us, immaterial of race, religion, social or economic status, have so much in common.

“DML is a group that heals the soul in these difficult times. We share a common past and we shall share a common destiny.”

Another member, Aliyah Khan, said the experiences of everyday people and photographs were important social documents to understand society and communities from different generations.

Steven Ng, 25, said he was glad there were no arguments and bickering in DML, adding it was more a place to have “fun, laugh and be happy”.

Topics on DML are varied and get a little serious when people talk about the disappearance of the art of handwriting and of the young who are no longer using fountain pens to write in cursive.

Let’s look at 10 photographs below that triggered feisty banter.

Being Malaysian: Pupils of Chung Hwa (Primary) School in Muar won prizes for their portrayal of Malaysians during Children’s Day celebrations in 1963. (From left) Thio Keng Haw, 10, in cheongsam, Goh Peck Choo, 12 in baju kurung, and Wong Soon Lin, 11, in sari.
Reel memories: The entire neighbourhood turned up to watch the screening of a movie in an open space. People from all walks of life shared food and laughed together, and if it was a Tamil or Chinese film, learned a bit of the languages.
Sticks, stones and tin cans: These images of kids playing Konda-kondi (Kaunda kaundi in Tamil) with wooden sticks threw up memories of games of yesteryear such as five stones, bola tin, hantam bola and marbles.
Getting groovy: The dressing of musicians, like these four “Black Barons” from 1970s Seremban, always had traction. From left: Basil Sta Maria, his brother, Malaysian hockey legend Brian, Viji and Benny Hiew.
Naughty boys: Many would have as kids peeled the tough skin with their teeth and chewed on a sugarcane for the juice against their parents’ advice. Imagine the DML group alight with talk of mischief.
iPad from the past: This image of boys holding their chalk blackboards recalled the hilarious moments when children lugged the boards around as if their lives depended on it.
Temple of parties: The cabaret at the BB Trade Exhibition Centre was the place to be in the 1960s. Entrance was 50 cents per person and the elite and the ordinary man gathered here, so you can imagine what people in their 60s talked about.
Hello! Hello!: You had to have enough coins when using a public phone. And patience with the person hogging the line.
Flying kisses: The tales of those who watched their loved ones board the plane from a close distance at the Subang Airport terminal in the 1970s sizzle.

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